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Susan Wingate
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A Tidal Wave of Difficulties
I'm sorry I've been so quiet of late. I've been deep in contemplation. I figure, I work six to eight hours on Bob stuff. That's what I...
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Jul 24, 20241 min read
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As Time Closes In
"I'm not a future seer." A few years ago, 2017, Bob and I went to a Willy Nelson concert. We took four dogs—Robert, Rocky, Missy and...
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Jul 2, 20242 min read
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Uncertainty Becomes Guilt Becomes Shame
I think it was Saturday evening around 4p. I'm not sure. I just checked my phone. No, it was Sunday. I lost a whole day when it happened....
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Jun 26, 20244 min read
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Proper Use of a Spoon for Heaven
Twenty-two years ago, way back when Bob and I were first dating, we went out to dinner. We both ordered whatever we ordered. Me, probably...
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Jun 23, 20242 min read
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Today is Someone's Birthday
Once upon a time, 77 years ago, one of the finest people was born into the world. A toe-head, his mother adored him above all the other...
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Jun 20, 20241 min read
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A Sad-Happy Dream
I dreamed about Bob last night. These days he sleeps in a hospital bed in the other room. Has for quite a while. A hospital bed because...
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Jun 18, 20243 min read
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All These Precious Things
When we have dialogue, try to remember, it's me talking. He responds. He listens. Giggles sometimes. Sometimes he scratches the spot on...
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Jun 15, 20243 min read
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On Wanting and Things That Smell
This is from fourteen years ago... It is estimated that 65 to 75% of dementia patients are cared for at home by family members, including...
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Jun 12, 20245 min read
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Being Noble
Earlier this morning, I chased off a sharp-shinned hawk from my backyard. Just clapped my hands and told it, “Be on your way!” I feed...
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Jun 10, 20245 min read
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Going Under a Rock...like a sand turtle.
When things get overwhelmed here at the Wingate abode, under a rock sounds like the most comfy place to be. Did you notice how there is...
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Jun 8, 20244 min read
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The Heimlich Maneuver Works. Period.
By the time I got home from work Friday, Bob was in distress. Thank goodness I have help with him. Deanna comes Thursdays and Fridays...
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May 1, 20243 min read
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What Keeps Me Up at Night? Not Monkeys Inside My Head. It's the Raccoons Knocking on My Window.
There will no sleep for a while since the raccoons returned. Every year in the winter, the raccoons go into what is called a...
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Apr 24, 20242 min read
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You Will Have a Pop Quiz at the End of This Writing Class
I need to apologize for missing my scheduled Monday post. Now, my excuse: The story I started in June of 2021 has settled into my...
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Apr 23, 20243 min read
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Friday Free Writing
Between Bob and The Little Store (our store), I squeeze in a little bit of creative writing into my blog. I post my creative writing for...
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Apr 19, 20244 min read
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He Puts Things in His Mouth
Way back, when one of Bob's doctors put him into visiting hospice care, a social worker came by the house to go through a list of hospice...
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Apr 17, 20243 min read
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A Comment About Grief
I went to a friend's memorial at The Grange Hall yesterday. Mike passed away in December. His wife, Annie is a dear and close friend of...
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Apr 15, 20244 min read
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"Exploring the Absurd: A Dive into Magical Realism"
This is the beginning of a love story. In ways, it may seem unedited. But isn't all love? Phantasmagoria 1: an exhibition of optical...
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Apr 12, 20244 min read
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On Caregiving + One Clarification on my Showering Habits
After writing and publishing The Sand Girl Learns Catharsis Through Showering, plus another day's time to think on it, I want to clarify...
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Apr 10, 20244 min read
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The Sand Girl Learns Catharsis through Showering
The Greeks have all the best words. Catharsis being one of them. "Catharsis is from the Ancient Greek word κάθαρσις, katharsis, meaning...
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Apr 8, 20244 min read
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I'm so tired I can barely think to write.
After getting up the past two days at 2:30 a.m. and getting to work by 3:30, my arms and legs ache from exhaustion. I hope you will...
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Apr 5, 20247 min read
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