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Susan Wingate
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I Am No Saint. Control Freaks are Seldom Saints. But I'll Have to Look That Up on the Internet Because I Hate Being Wrong too.
The Saints are one of my favorite NFL teams. However, this post will not be about them. Sorry to disappoint. At church this past Easter...
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Apr 3, 20245 min read
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An Attrition of Acquaintances
Around the age of twenty-six a close friend, Bruce got cancer. I have "known" death from an early age and even more by twenty-six. My...
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Apr 1, 20244 min read
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Don't Abandon the Things You Love
I felt like I was going insane while I was caring for my mom. Her sickness came on differently than Bob's and acted differently. Mom was...
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Mar 29, 20245 min read
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The Slowing Down of the Gut
About Monday's post on "something scary," I wanted to add that I've mitigated chances of Bob falling by making sure, when we brush his...
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Mar 27, 20245 min read
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"Something Scary Happened"
...a reason for caregivers to stay fit... Wednesday I promised my post about fungus but started that post by writing, "The topic on...
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Mar 25, 20244 min read
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I Promised Fungus, You Get Fungus
The topic on fungus almost got sidetracked again because of something scary that happened with Bob last night. But since I promised you...
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Mar 20, 20243 min read
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Finding a Slice of Joy
As a caregiver, it's easy to feel overworked, exhausted, and depressed. I struggle with these things daily. Some days it feels like I...
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Mar 18, 20242 min read
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Things Get Small
My mom was an artist. She worked in various jobs to pay the bills but she painted thousands of pieces. I put together a small booklet of...
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Mar 15, 20243 min read
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Invisible Things He Sees
I have only hallucinated once. In my twenties. They wrote a song about that time of a person's life called, "Those Were the Days." And,...
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Mar 12, 20243 min read
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A Split-Screen of Emotions: Living with Grief
I struggle on what a normal life is. So, like, before was normal--I was single then got married to Bob. We worked, had daily home...
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Mar 11, 20244 min read
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A Bit About Bed Sores
During Mom's stay with us and after we medicated her for psychotic behavior due to Alzheimer's, she mostly stayed in bed. The medication...
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Mar 7, 20243 min read
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The Weight of Care
Feeding and drinking became dangerous. A sign that Bob's body was failing him in a slow but consistent glide downward. Let me back up. I...
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Mar 6, 20244 min read
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Have You Lost Your Smile?
A friend of mine and I chatted for a while Saturday. She asked about Bob. I laughed and said, "He's silly." My friend said, "Another...
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Mar 4, 20244 min read
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As a Woman and a Caregiver Perceived
Lots can be said about caregivers who are caring for loved ones. Most are positive in nature--nurturing, patient, longsuffering, kind,...
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Mar 1, 20243 min read
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Feeling the Love
I started writing again about dementia because a few people had mentioned they liked my previous posts when Mom had Alzheimer's. I...
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Feb 28, 20242 min read
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When the Caregiver Gets Sick
I got some crud this past weekend. I think it is a mild case of the flu because I get annual vaccinations. But, boy-oh-boy... Anyway, I...
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Feb 26, 20243 min read
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I Just Got Another Box of Goodies for Bob
Early this morning, while catheterizing Bob, I thought how blessed he and I are to have the things we need to live a somewhat normal...
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Feb 21, 20242 min read
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Feeding Bob
I think the more fun the food, the more Bob enjoys his meals. Plus, having Gully on his lap while he eats makes the process more fun as...
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Feb 20, 20242 min read
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Singing and Dancing through Dementia...and Cats
Thank God Mom put me through dance and acting classes when I was a kid. It was on my own that I took a few voice lessons. Thank God,...
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Feb 20, 20242 min read
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Pill Time at the Zoo
By the time Mom was living with us, when she moved into the studio apartment we had fashioned for her, Alzheimer's had fully taken...
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Feb 19, 20244 min read
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